Aubrey and I were having a conversation yesterday about space, time, physics, aliens, black holes, infinity etc. And he said that he watched a video which said that scientists had found that time stops in the centre of a black hole. Now, I find this really difficult to understand. How does time stop? Surely, as long anything else is happening, time is still happening. Time is just a name given to progress, or growing, or change, or existence. Time is just a way of measuring the age or evolution of something, it just is and it can’t be got rid of. That’s my opinion of it. I need to find this video because I can’t wrap my head round the time stopping thing. Unless ‘time stops’ is just a way of describing how everything pauses in a black hole, everything gets obliterated and thus nothing happens? As far as I’m concerned, if things are destroyed as soon as it enter the black hole, but the earth has life and change/evolution and the rest of the universe has stuff happening, then time still exists. Time is not subject to where in the universe it is, it just keeps going. I could talk for years. I won’t. Ahhhhh

following some gossip I heard. 

I have no time for anyone who hurts themselves, literally or not, and complains about it. If you know you’re doing something which won’t benefit you, it won’t do you any good, in fact, it’ll do you bad, then you have no right to complain. I don’t want to see or hear you whining about something you have 100% choice in. By all means, do what you want, just don’t complain about it to me or around me. I have no patience for it. I’ll care at first, sure, I’ll give you the best advice I can but I won’t try and make you feel better. But, if you carry on, against everyone’s advice and the obvious solution, I will leave you to it and won’t talk about it anymore. There are just more important things in the world.