following some gossip I heard. 

I have no time for anyone who hurts themselves, literally or not, and complains about it. If you know you’re doing something which won’t benefit you, it won’t do you any good, in fact, it’ll do you bad, then you have no right to complain. I don’t want to see or hear you whining about something you have 100% choice in. By all means, do what you want, just don’t complain about it to me or around me. I have no patience for it. I’ll care at first, sure, I’ll give you the best advice I can but I won’t try and make you feel better. But, if you carry on, against everyone’s advice and the obvious solution, I will leave you to it and won’t talk about it anymore. There are just more important things in the world.